We have all seen those memes about how seeing people Info-dump is the hottest thing ever, but even in normal conversations listening to people talk is chore in of itself. I get bored quickly and look somewhere else or interrupt them with my own thoughts or try to predict what they are going to say.

It feels like i am more interest in myself and what i care about than what the other person has to say,who they are or what they care about.

And yes, i am aware how beyond self-centered that is and i do wish to work on that but i am also wondering if others have similar experience.

    • Infynis@midwest.social
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      1 day ago

      I met a person like this, and married her. It’s great. I never have to worry about keeping the conversation going, and can just enjoy being with her and contributing when it’s natural for me