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So when I’m dead I’m consenting to have my likeness used
I’ve posted this comic a frightening amount in the last few weeks.
Sexy losers is GREAT! What a deep cut.
Gonna disagree with the dead one. Being dead isn’t consent.
Did no one else notice that snuck in?
Ok but she’s not going to say no because of the implication.
I feel like you’re allowed to hesistate and still say a “yes” yes, especially since the “threatened and then said yes” is separate on this. It can be complicated and thought over first, no?
That’s what a room without an elephant looks like according to AI
You will be the bearer of the new royal elephant
P. Sherman 42 Wallaby Way Sydney
Hi!
Must’ve been the wind
…wait a minute
Time to crack open a cold one.
A little piece of heaven, you might call it.
Don’t forget the heater
No, no. This is accurate.
No, I don’t think I will
Danger: Please don’t give anyone the idea that the only way for men to get lucky with a woman is via murder.
murder?? what kind of sick predator do you take me for?
i’m a scavenger thank you
Ah, I see you’re a man of culture as well
Yeah I got a shovel thank you
If a woman isn’t insatiable for me I’m not interested
This man fucks
Sounds like you just don’t know how to satisfy 🤷♀️
It’s a lot less effort to satisfy someone who wishes to be satisfied.
‘Insatiable’ = “unable to be satisfied”
It was a play on words
Sorry, I am both too elevated and inebriated to have recognized your wordplay
Yeah i have some questions about the animal one…
Some people think animals can consent, it’s just “non-verbal”. Best you can get is sometimes you’ll have to restrain (or drug) an animal in heat less. In reality, that’s like if pedophilia was okay if the child was teen and extremely horny, in reality teens are more often targeted than pre-pubescent kids, and they also groomed with sexual and/or romantic favors.
ostriches have entered the chat
I used to go to church at this cult and people are weird. There was this kid there (he’s okay now but like, we all grow up a little twisted) who was always making jokes about putting peanut butter on his nethers and having his dog lick it off. One day someone must have reported the jokes and that was the last time (thank gods) we heard them, despite months of telling him that was fucked up.
An audible sigh followed by “Fine” or “Sure” = Yes
But the lack of enthusiasm really kills the mood.
So do the tears. …wait
The shampoo promised tho
Their tears or mine?
By the time I’m done, everyone is crying.
Technically, humans are animals so this basically rules out everything except corpses and sentient plants, fungi, and inanimate objects.
Where my shroom coomers at
~Cecilia Granata
Oooh, them boletes thicc tho!
Eh … I’m on the fence about “hesitated yes”.
If we’re to reducto ad absurdum it, exactly how much hesitation turns a yes to a no? In fractions of a second, please.
Yeah I’ve been sexually violated in ways like posts like this are usually about (coerced and pressured past my "no"s into situations I didn’t want) and while I respect the effort, I feel like they’re often in a weird position of overzealous and only really applicable in hookup type situations, they also often ignore more manipulative styles of pressuring a yes.
Hesitation is fine, but it may be good practice to double check if the following yes isn’t enthusiastic. The yes is often less important than the enthusiasm in early stages. I’ve had wonderful nights of tongue wrestling where we never asked, we flirted until it was clearly mutual, and in one case we were hesitating at first because we were both not super comfortable with the age gap (we talked about it after). And we were both drunk, because there’s a difference between consensual actions while in an altered state and taking advantage of a drunk person, and that difference largely comes down to enthusiasm and being in a similar state. If I’m one beer in and generally feeling fine I ought to turn down a shitfaced woman who’s hitting on me hard, but if I’m right there with her that’s fine.
And in long term relationship6s I think the need for enthusiasm reduces. Sometimes you put out when you aren’t really in the mood because you love your partner and value the intimacy. That’s not being sexually violated unless you were pressured or coerced.
Consent is a discussion that requires genuine nuance, and checklists will always come off as far more clunky than most people’s lived experiences with it.
Id say hesitating yes require a proper confirmation. If the person doesn’t look sure to you, ask them ?
