I left Reddit to get away from that, but unfortunately there still seem to be a fair number of users here that also are convinced men are the real underclass, victimized by everything.
I think I mostly run into it on meme communities. Is that just the destiny of all meme communities? To be overtaken by MRAs? It sucks because I genuinely like memes, but I don’t like randomly being smacked in the face by misogyny all the time. Any other communities I should avoid?
Any insight or tips appreciated 🥰
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I will join the chorus asking for examples of what you are talking about. Any actually misogynistic content I see is typically massively downvoted.
I see posts like this sometimes and wonder wtf they’re talking about.
Then I see how huge my blocklist is and realize I’m probably having a very different Lemmy experience.
Haha that might just be the solution, I just gotta keep blocking people and it’ll get better eventually.
Young guys fall into it when they’re lonely, don’t know how to talk to girls, and don’t have any better role models. There’s an element of “You need to grow up and do the hard thing” to it.
I think it’s too bad there’s so much of it online
You know I was confused at first but you see I block all meme communities. So I never see the stuff.
Someone else suggested that too, which might just be all I can do. I’ll miss some of the memes though I can’t lie 😖 but it’s not worth it
I’m sure this thread can only lead to productive discourse.
OP self identifies as degenerate, is offended other degenerates exist. because you know, be my flavor of degenerate, not that flavor.
this is peak cinema. we can only have one underclass, and it’s MINE.
On the plus side a lot of people are going to block OP for this post and that would prevent them from stumbling over the rape cartoon community they moderate.
I didn’t think shit like that was allowed here, and I definitely don’t want it popping up on /all
No, seriously, block me if you find any kind of pornography triggering, I highly encourage it. I don’t want anyone who is uncomfortable with it to run across my work and I don’t really want to deal with kink-negativity, either.
That said, slut-shaming or kink-shaming me won’t invalidate my point, which is really what most of you are trying to do with the ad hominems.
You’ve yet to share some examples of misogyny. Because, in my experience as a frequent poster/scroller, misogynistic posts get downvoted into oblivion and the comments are filled with “fuck OP” types of things. It’s mostly silly stupid shit, like earlier I started a corn revolution in shitpost.
If you’re talking about the greentext and 4chan-y sort of meme communities… I mean… it’s 4chan.
Like, the latest post in !greentext@sh.itjust.works is about James Bond and mixology. And then at the end it’s ableist.
I’m not sure whether that community is run/modded by people that think “it’s fine if it’s just jokes” (which I don’t agree with, for the record) or if their justification is a bit more convoluted. (Maybe something like “everyone knows to expect this community to be filled with bigotry of every single sort, but at least if they come here to this community, they’ll see such stuff in a community/climate where few would try to pass that off as a good/normal thing than if they went to 4chan for these memes, and people probably won’t stop viewing them even if they’re not available here.” Though, then again, the comments section of that community is pretty bad as well. At least far worse than most of the rest of Lemmy as far as I’ve seen.)
But yeah. Any community that’s mostly dedicated to 4chan content is gonna be pretty well dripping with every sort of bigotry you can imagine.
Are there other meme communities that have these issues, though? I can’t say I’ve noticed any, but would love to know at least some examples.
I’m not talking about that but that’s very true in general about 4chan lol
Someone else will have to provide examples, like a few other commentors here I’ve decided it’s probably best to just move in and block those communities!
Memes are one of those things where a few people make most of them and everyone else just shares them. A lot of memes are made to appeal to get people on the MRA ramp.
If you have people posting popular memes that they are pulling from random or popular sources on other sites, there will probably be MRA memes mixed in there.
I think you’re probably right, just something I gotta live with
I’ve recently blocked https://lemmy.world/c/memes https://sopuli.xyz/c/memes, some posts on there just have a weird vibe to them, almost like facebook
That might just be what I’ll have to do, too. Any suggestions for better meme communities? I guess I can always start one lol. It seems irritating to have to specifically have a separate meme community where misogyny isn’t tolerated, but it seems like it’s the only way to be able to enjoy funny images without being jump-scared constantly by people insisting that the evil wimens are gonna get half in the divorce111!!
blahaj has zero tolerance for misogyny, so I’d recommend any meme communities there, like 196
you’re also very unlikely to find any mysoginistic posts on the .ml instance but that one has occasional tankies
occasional
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Thabk you, these are the exact kinds of tips I was hoping for. You rule ❤️
You have some examples of what you’re talking about? Seems ironic to be upset about misogynistic jokes in a meme community while posting images of extreme sexual violence against women. But, I can’t judge until I know specifically what you’re talking about.
I want to be really clear that I’m not posting abuse images, which seems to be what you’re implying. Artwork is allowed to be as dark as it needs to be and I’m open to discussions about how kinks don’t form in a vacuum and are influenced by the patriarchy, but to pretend hentai is the same thing as “extreme sexual violence against women” is deliberately disengenuous.
Sounds like the same defense I’ve heard creeps make about lolicon. Kink is one thing and I’m completely aware how and why they typically form. I’m not even here to kink shame(I’m into plenty of freak shit), just point out the irony.The drawings are depictions of extreme sexual violence, no? Do you have examples like I was talking about? Every blatant misogynistic post I’ve seen, even in meme communities gets absolutely blasted by comments and downvotes.
It’s not a zero-sum game. In fact, it’s not a competition about who’s the most oppressed at all. Someone advocating for men isn’t taking anything away from any other group. It’s just the group they happen to most relate with. Some people dedicate their lives to helping dogs and I doubt you’d take issue with that either. Also, men doing better leads to women doing better as well and vice-versa.
I appreciate that, but it’s not related to my question
