• Buffalox@lemmy.world
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    Taiwan sounds like a weird place, if you are not allowed to record a surveillance video in your own home.
    It’s irrelevant that it was done with a camera on a cleaner, it’s no different than if it had been a dedicated surveillance.

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      If the article is accurate it sounds like their “reasonable expectation of privacy” focuses more on the individual than the location of the recording. Or maybe it’s different for “intimate acts”.

      Which can be true in other countries too depending on the situation, where ownership of the location doesn’t always allow you to record anybody within without consent.

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        reasonable expectation of privacy

        And how did that term become relevant, when fucking in the bedroom she shared with her husband?
        From a surveillance perspective, he is clearly an intruder, and she is his accomplish. This judgement is bullshit, and I wouldn’t be surprised if it is overturned if he appeals it. But he probably won’t for $4,700.

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      to record a surveillance video in your own home.

      It sounds less unreasonable if you say “secretly filming people fuck in private”

      We also had a thing around here where some tv host got in trouble for using hidden bedroom cameras to record himself with unknowing people, as evidence in case of allegations.

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        He absolutely had a good reason for that. It was crucial in the divorce settlement. You can’t claim privacy when fucking around in your husbands bedroom.

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          You can’t claim privacy when fucking around in your husbands bedroom.

          According to the courts in this story, yes, she can.

          That’s her bedroom, too, by the way. Not just her husband’s.

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            True that it is shared, but she helped an intruder into their bedroom, he has a right to film the intruder, and it is absolutely her own fault that she was on the pictures too.

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                What a weird comment to make??? That’s what my entire comment was about to begin with.
                A court in Taiwan, which made me comment that Taiwan is a weird place to make such a court judgement .
                Repeating it over an over again is not making a point.

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                  It’s not her own fault for being the subject of a recording. It’s the husband’s fault for pressing record.

                  Thank god you’re not a lawyer or involved in legal situations at all.

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      “it’s abuse to record” but not physical abuse, so it must be emotional then.

      Is cheating not emotional abuse? What a weird take.

      I wonder if it would be the same thought process if genders wre reversed.

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        I wonder if it would be the same thought process if genders wre reversed.

        Good point. She was aiding an intruder into his bedroom, perfectly justified to record it, especially since it had an impact on their divorce case.
        It is 100% he who was wronged. Him recording it is 100% justified.

        If he had put it on the Internet, or sent it to her friends, that would be different. She can’t complain that he recorded evidence in his own house.

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          You keep using the word intruder, but the person was invited by a legal occupant. The law doesn’t work on a tit for tat basis, one person’s bad behavior isn’t a legal excuse for someone else’s bad behavior.

          I’m surprised he didn’t have a lawyer go through it and delete parts that would get him in trouble.

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        I agree with your overall logic, but I think you replied to the wrong person. They never even mentioned the word abuse, nor did they say it wasn’t.

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          I did, and while I agree that being ordered to pay money for that is bullshit and they should have just gotten a divorce and be done with it, that’s not the point.

          He was punished for recording in his own home.

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            If your neighbours break into your house to have wild sex, they shouldn’t be surprised if they got recorded - but that doesn’t make it legal to record it.

            Just like when the neighbours break into your house you’re not allowed to kill them.

            Someone breaking one law does not allow you to break another. That can seem unfair and become conflicting, but is a basic truth across the globe.

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                This husband wasn’t allowed to record his wife having sex without her consent.

                Where’s the line for y’all here? Is he allowed to rape her? Beat her? Torture her? What other crimes is he allowed to commit against her in your opinion?

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                  Velma. You have firmly established that you know how to use a slippery slope and straw man fallacy. We all see your accomplishment. Well done you. If I give you a medal will you stop?

                  🥇

                  He wasn’t allowed, he was punished.

                  She forgot there was a camera in her house when she invited her affair partner over. He didn’t post it online, he used it in court. And again (since you like repeating) he was punished.

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              Recording her having sex without consent is decidedly not the same as hitting someone in self-defense.

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                gathering evidence of wrongdoing against you in order to be able to defend yourself in court against someone doing you harm is not the same as recording someone having sex for sexual gratification.

                EDIT : If I take a picture of someone robbing my house when they are naked, am I getting “nudes” of them?

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        I am utterly devoid of any sympathy for a cheater. Sorry but it takes a lot of shameless gall to sue someone or press charges for anything after they catch you cheating.

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            You can term this abuse if you want, but I see this as appropriate consequences for a hurtful act IMO. If you don’t like that don’t cheat.

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              Revenge porn and recording someone having sex without consent is a crime regardless of what that person has done to you to hurt your feelings.

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                Revenge porn

                explain what revenge porn is, and why you think this is revenge porn.

                EDIT for viewers at home :

                https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Revenge_porn

                Revenge porn is the distribution of sexually explicit images or videos of individuals without their consent

                it may shock some of you to know that evidence for divorce proceedings is not distrobution.

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                  Revenge porn and recording someone having sex without consent

                  Explain to me why you’re clipping my comment out of context to try to make a point.

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                    because you’re bending over backwards to frame someone abusing someone else in a legal system as being the victim.

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                Sure, I guess. I suppose it is also illegal for me to beat the shit out of someone who tried to mug me. It’s against the rules for a kid bullied in school to fight back. Certain actions invite harsh consequences. Doesn’t mean it’s not an entirely appropriate consequence to suffer for having cheated on someone.

                People don’t learn their lessons without consequences. And anyone who would violate someone’s trust like that certainly has a lesson that needs learning. I don’t get why you’re defending a cheater here, it is a very immature position to take in this situation and such an obvious and reasonable consequence for this person.

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                  Because people are justifying abuse when it’s very rarely, if ever, justified.

                  One person’s actions don’t justify your abusive actions regardless of how hurt you are.

                  Cheaters make terrible decisions that hurt their partners. I’m not defending that. But that’s independent of these revenge fantasies you all are coming up with for her.

                  She was punished by the courts as was he for their separate actions.

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                    So if someone raped my daughter, you would defend that rapist from me trying to break every bone in their body?

                    If yes, something is deeply wrong with you.

                    If not, then we agree that sometimes consequences beyond what the law prescribes are appropriate. We just disagree where the line is, and it makes your reasoning pretty hollow.

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        And how did he abuse her?
        It was her that abused the agreement they entered when they got married. And it was valid course for him seeking divorce and be compensated.

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          By recording her without consent.

          It wasn’t a valid course of action, the courts determined he was in the wrong for this.

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            the courts determined he was in the wrong for this.

            For fucks sake that was the basis for my original comment, why do you think you are making an argument repeating that?

            Also if it is illegal, why was it accepted in separation court?

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        Is she still a spouse if she’s cheating with sex? No immediately not in my book.

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          Well, that’s not really a matter of opinion lol. Spouse is a specific legal term. They’re still a spouse until a court dissolves the contract.